Counsels on Wellness

Counsel #17 — Love Required

Picture: Counsel #17 — Love Required CWe 246.1

One of the saddest realities in today’s world is the overwhelming number of homes void of genuine love. Whether raised in a single- or dual-parent household, many people today struggle to understand just how essential love is within the home. CWe 246.2

Love is the foundation for well-being, mental stability, and spiritual development. God calls all believers to create homes rooted in love. Yet, many mistakenly believe that a happy, loving home can be created simply by demanding good behavior. In truth, good behavior must first be modeled. Just as Jesus demonstrated love and service to His disciples, parents are called to do the same for their children. A child should never be expected to display a behavior they haven’t first seen reflected by the leader in the home. That’s why it’s vital to make compassion a constant in your household. A Christ-centered home will only flourish when it is filled with those who are themselves filled with love.^[279] CWe 246.3

“Lord, I love the house where you live, the place where your glory dwells.” Psalms 26:8 NIV CWe 246.4

“Love should be seen in the looks and manners and heard in the tones of the voice.” Ellen White in The Adventist Home, p. 109 CWe 246.5

Reflect: If someone were to ask members of your family if love can be seen in your home, what would they say? CWe 246.6