Counsels on Lifestyle

Counsel #4 — Usage

Picture: Counsel #4 — Usage CLi 14.1

Bekind and respectfulto others on social media. Even if you disagree with someone, there is no need to attack them personally. Focus on criticizing their ideas, not their character. Respect also includes being ethical about the use of others’ intellectual and individual property rights.^[11] CLi 14.2

Be open to hearing different perspectives. Just because you disagree with someone doesn't mean that they are wrong. Try to listen to their point of view and understand why they hold their beliefs. CLi 14.3

If someone presents you with evidence that contradicts your ideas, be willing to admit that you were wrong. It's okay to be wrong, and it's a sign of maturity to be able to admit it. CLi 14.4

Be forgiving. If someone says something hurtful or offensive, ask God to give you a forgiving heart. Holding on to grudges will only make you bitter and unhappy. CLi 14.5

“Do all things without complaining and disputing.” Philippians 2:14 NKJV CLi 14.6

“Every association of life calls for the exercise of self-control, forbearance, and sympathy.” Ellen White in The Ministry of Health and Healing, p. 283 CLi 14.7

Reflect: In what ways might it be helpful to remember that God loves everyone and created them in His image before interacting on social media? (see Genesis 1:27) CLi 14.8