Counsels on Relationships

Counsel #6 — Family Socializing

Picture: Counsel #6 — family socializing CR 16.1

Loving parents cultivate happy social interaction within their families. Never be too busy to read and cuddle with your children, play games with them, pray with them, or talk to them about Jesus. The bonding of parent to child, particularly in the early years, sets the tone for the child’s social development and has life-long impact.^[14] CR 16.2

Parents who are harsh or emotionally detached from their children negatively affect their social and emotional development in significant ways. Conversely, children who observe their parents socializing positively and easily with others, seeking to serve spiritually, emotionally, and physically are more likely to become caring adults themselves.  CR 16.3

“As a father shows compassion to his children, so the Lord shows compassion to those who fear him.” Psalms 103:13 ESV CR 16.4

“Give some of your leisure hours to your children; associate with them in their work and in their sports, and win their confidence. Cultivate their friendship.” Ellen White in The Adventist Home, p. 192 CR 16.5

Reflect: If you have children, what are your favorite family activities that their attention to Jesus? CR 16.6