Chapter 3—The Eden Home a Pattern
God Prepared Man's First Home—The Eden home of our first parents was prepared for them by God Himself. When He had furnished it with everything that man could desire, He said: “Let Us make man in Our image, after Our likeness.” ...
AH 25.1
The Lord was pleased with this last and noblest of all His creatures, and designed that he should be the perfect inhabitant of a perfect world. But it was not His purpose that man should live in solitude. He said: “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.”1
AH 25.2
God Himself gave Adam a companion. He provided “an help meet for him”—a helper corresponding to him—one who was fitted to be his companion, and who could be one with him in love and sympathy. Eve was created from a rib taken from the side of Adam, signifying that she was not to control him as the head, nor to be trampled under his feet as an inferior, but to stand by his side as an equal, to be loved and protected by him. A part of man, bone of his bone, and flesh of his flesh, she was his second self; showing the close union and the affectionate attachment that should exist in this relation. “For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it.” “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one.”2
AH 25.3
First Marriage Performed by God—God celebrated the first marriage. Thus the institution has for its originator the Creator of the universe. “Marriage is honourable”; it was one of the first gifts of God to man, and it is one of the two institutions that, after the fall, Adam brought with him beyond the gates of Paradise. When the divine principles are recognized and obeyed in this relation, marriage is a blessing; it guards the purity and happiness of the race, it provides for man's social needs, it elevates the physical, the intellectual, and the moral nature.3
AH 25.4
He who gave Eve to Adam as a helpmeet performed His first miracle at a marriage festival. In the festal hall where friends and kindred rejoiced together, Christ began His public ministry. Thus He sanctioned marriage, recognizing it as an institution that He Himself had established....
AH 26.1
Christ honored the marriage relation by making it also a symbol of the union between Him and His redeemed ones. He Himself is the Bridegroom; the bride is the church, of which, as His chosen one, He says, “Thou art all fair, My love; there is no spot in thee.”4
AH 26.2
Every Want Was Supplied—Adam was surrounded with everything his heart could wish. Every want was supplied. There were no sin and no signs of decay in glorious Eden. Angels of God conversed freely and lovingly with the holy pair. The happy songsters caroled forth their free, joyous songs of praise to their Creator. The peaceful beasts in happy innocence played about Adam and Eve, obedient to their word. Adam was in the perfection of manhood, the noblest of the Creator's work.5
AH 26.3
Not a shadow interposed between them and their Creator. They knew God as their beneficent Father, and in all things their will was conformed to the will of God. And God's character was reflected in the character of Adam. His glory was revealed in every object of nature.6
AH 26.4
Labor Was Appointed for Man's Happiness—God is a lover of the beautiful. He has given us unmistakable evidence of this in the work of His hands. He planted for our first parents a beautiful garden in Eden. Stately trees were caused to grow out of the ground, of every description, for usefulness and ornament. The beautiful flowers were formed, of rare loveliness, of every tint and hue, perfuming the air.... It was the design of God that man should find happiness in the employment of tending the things He had created, and that his wants should be met with the fruits of the trees of the garden7
AH 27.1
To Adam was given the work of caring for the garden. The Creator knew that Adam could not be happy without employment. The beauty of the garden delighted him, but this was not enough. He must have labor to call into exercise the wonderful organs of the body. Had happiness consisted in doing nothing, man, in his state of holy innocence, would have been left unemployed. But He who created man knew what would be for his happiness; and no sooner had He created him than He gave him his appointed work. The promise of future glory, and the decree that man must toil for his daily bread, came from the same throne.8
AH 27.2
God Is Honored by a Christian Home—Fathers and mothers who make God first in their households, who teach their children that the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, glorify God before angels and before men by presenting to the world a well-ordered, well-disciplined family—a family that love and obey God instead of rebelling against Him. Christ is not a stranger in their homes; His name is a household name, revered and glorified. Angels delight in a home where God reigns supreme and the children are taught to reverence religion, the Bible, and their Creator. Such families can claim the promise, “Them that honour Me I will honour.” As from such a home the father goes forth to his daily duties, it is with a spirit softened and subdued by converse with God.9
AH 27.3
The presence of Christ alone can make men and women happy. All the common waters of life Christ can turn into the wine of heaven. The home then becomes as an Eden of bliss; the family, a beautiful symbol of the family in heaven.10
AH 28.1
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The Adventist Home
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Love","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0042_eng_m_chapter_31_security_through_love_128_877.mp3#duration=655&size=5386536"},{"para_id":"128.903","title":"Chapter 32\u2014Preoccupy the Garden of the Heart","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0043_eng_m_chapter_32_preoccupy_the_garden_of_the_heart_128_903.mp3#duration=420&size=3504033"},{"para_id":"128.923","title":"Chapter 33\u2014Promises of Divine Guidance","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0044_eng_m_chapter_33_promises_of_divine_guidance_128_923.mp3#duration=648&size=5329620"},{"para_id":"128.951","title":"Chapter 34\u2014Father's Position and Responsibilities","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0046_eng_m_chapter_34_father_s_position_and_responsibilities_128_953.mp3#duration=669&size=5496271"},{"para_id":"128.978","title":"Chapter 35\u2014Sharing the Burdens","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0047_eng_m_chapter_35_sharing_the_burdens_128_978.mp3#duration=423&size=3527890"},{"para_id":"128.998","title":"Chapter 36\u2014A Companion With His 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Motherhood","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0054_eng_m_chapter_41_imperfect_patterns_of_motherhood_128_1122.mp3#duration=385&size=3227024"},{"para_id":"128.1136","title":"Chapter 42\u2014Mother's Health and Personal Appearance","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0055_eng_m_chapter_42_mother_s_health_and_personal_appearance_128_1136.mp3#duration=490&size=4068532"},{"para_id":"128.1156","title":"Chapter 43\u2014Prenatal Influences","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0056_eng_m_chapter_43_prenatal_influences_128_1156.mp3#duration=665&size=5466318"},{"para_id":"128.1181","title":"Chapter 44\u2014Care Of Little Children","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0057_eng_m_chapter_44_care_of_little_children_128_1181.mp3#duration=487&size=4043857"},{"para_id":"128.1201","title":"Chapter 45\u2014Mother's First Duty Is To Train Children","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0058_eng_m_chapter_45_mother_s_first_duty_is_to_train_children_128_1201.mp3#duration=675&size=5548877"},{"para_id":"128.1231","title":"Chapter 46\u2014The Stepmother","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0059_eng_m_chapter_46_the_stepmother_128_1231.mp3#duration=444&size=3692821"},{"para_id":"128.1245","title":"Chapter 47\u2014Christ's Encouragement to Mothers","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0060_eng_m_chapter_47_christ_s_encouragement_to_mothers_128_1245.mp3#duration=466&size=3869090"},{"para_id":"128.1262","title":"Chapter 48\u2014Heaven's Estimate of Children","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0062_eng_m_chapter_48_heaven_s_estimate_of_children_128_1264.mp3#duration=361&size=3029009"},{"para_id":"128.1278","title":"Chapter 49\u2014Mother's Helpers","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0063_eng_m_chapter_49_mother_s_helpers_128_1278.mp3#duration=1111&size=9034655"},{"para_id":"128.1328","title":"Chapter 50\u2014The Honor Due Parents","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0064_eng_m_chapter_50_the_honor_due_parents_128_1328.mp3#duration=567&size=4680089"},{"para_id":"128.1352","title":"Chapter 51\u2014Counsel to Children","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0065_eng_m_chapter_51_counsel_to_children_128_1352.mp3#duration=832&size=6802713"},{"para_id":"128.1380","title":"Chapter 52\u2014Home Government","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0067_eng_m_chapter_52_home_government_128_1382.mp3#duration=912&size=7438169"},{"para_id":"128.1419","title":"Chapter 53\u2014A United Front","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0068_eng_m_chapter_53_a_united_front_128_1419.mp3#duration=595&size=4902168"},{"para_id":"128.1445","title":"Chapter 54\u2014Religion in the Family","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0069_eng_m_chapter_54_religion_in_the_family_128_1445.mp3#duration=1125&size=9148596"},{"para_id":"128.1496","title":"Chapter 55\u2014Moral Standards","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0070_eng_m_chapter_55_moral_standards_128_1496.mp3#duration=2209&size=17816854"},{"para_id":"128.1556","title":"Chapter 56\u2014Divorce","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0071_eng_m_chapter_56_divorce_128_1556.mp3#duration=1143&size=9287671"},{"para_id":"128.1601","title":"Chapter 57\u2014Attitude Toward an Unbelieving Companion","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0072_eng_m_chapter_57_attitude_toward_an_unbelieving_companion_128_1601.mp3#duration=664&size=5460646"},{"para_id":"128.1622","title":"Chapter 58\u2014The Minister's Family","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0073_eng_m_chapter_58_the_minister_s_family_128_1622.mp3#duration=954&size=7774740"},{"para_id":"128.1660","title":"Chapter 59\u2014The Aged Parents","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0074_eng_m_chapter_59_the_aged_parents_128_1660.mp3#duration=631&size=5195507"},{"para_id":"128.1683","title":"Chapter 60\u2014Stewards of God","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0076_eng_m_chapter_60_stewards_of_god_128_1685.mp3#duration=640&size=5261615"},{"para_id":"128.1709","title":"Chapter 61\u2014Principles of Family Finance","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0077_eng_m_chapter_61_principles_of_family_finance_128_1709.mp3#duration=1118&size=9093591"},{"para_id":"128.1762","title":"Chapter 62\u2014Economy to be Practiced","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0078_eng_m_chapter_62_economy_to_be_practiced_128_1762.mp3#duration=562&size=4643619"},{"para_id":"128.1786","title":"Chapter 63\u2014Instructing Children How to Earn and Use Money","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0079_eng_m_chapter_63_instructing_children_how_to_earn_and_use_money_128_1786.mp3#duration=561&size=4632566"},{"para_id":"128.1810","title":"Chapter 64\u2014Business Integrity","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0080_eng_m_chapter_64_business_integrity_128_1810.mp3#duration=473&size=3926796"},{"para_id":"128.1840","title":"Chapter 65\u2014Provision for the Future","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0081_eng_m_chapter_65_provision_for_the_future_128_1840.mp3#duration=505&size=4188234"},{"para_id":"128.1862","title":"Chapter 66\u2014The Portals We Must Watch","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0083_eng_m_chapter_66_the_portals_we_must_watch_128_1864.mp3#duration=678&size=5566099"},{"para_id":"128.1893","title":"Chapter 67\u2014Enticing Sights and Sounds","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0084_eng_m_chapter_67_enticing_sights_and_sounds_128_1893.mp3#duration=556&size=4592540"},{"para_id":"128.1910","title":"Chapter 68\u2014Reading and its Influence","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0085_eng_m_chapter_68_reading_and_its_influence_128_1910.mp3#duration=1142&size=9284325"},{"para_id":"128.1955","title":"Chapter 69\u2014Courtesy and Kindness","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0087_eng_m_chapter_69_courtesy_and_kindness_128_1957.mp3#duration=1245&size=10107554"},{"para_id":"128.2006","title":"Chapter 70\u2014Cheerfulness","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0088_eng_m_chapter_70_cheerfulness_128_2006.mp3#duration=495&size=4102728"},{"para_id":"128.2024","title":"Chapter 71\u2014Speech","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0089_eng_m_chapter_71_speech_128_2024.mp3#duration=1302&size=10565921"},{"para_id":"128.2083","title":"Chapter 72\u2014Hospitality","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0090_eng_m_chapter_72_hospitality_128_2083.mp3#duration=1027&size=8359635"},{"para_id":"128.2123","title":"Chapter 73\u2014Our Social Needs","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0092_eng_m_chapter_73_our_social_needs_128_2125.mp3#duration=459&size=3820293"},{"para_id":"128.2144","title":"Chapter 74\u2014Safe And Unsafe Associations","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0093_eng_m_chapter_74_safe_and_unsafe_associations_128_2144.mp3#duration=808&size=6610790"},{"para_id":"128.2177","title":"Chapter 75\u2014Parental Guidance In Social Affairs","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0094_eng_m_chapter_75_parental_guidance_in_social_affairs_128_2177.mp3#duration=698&size=5726246"},{"para_id":"128.2207","title":"Chapter 76\u2014Holidays And Anniversaries","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0095_eng_m_chapter_76_holidays_and_anniversaries_128_2207.mp3#duration=520&size=4301932"},{"para_id":"128.2236","title":"Chapter 77\u2014Christmas","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0096_eng_m_chapter_77_christmas_128_2236.mp3#duration=762&size=6245157"},{"para_id":"128.2271","title":"Chapter 78\u2014The Family a Missionary Center","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0097_eng_m_chapter_78_the_family_a_missionary_center_128_2271.mp3#duration=836&size=6836938"},{"para_id":"128.2305","title":"Chapter 79\u2014Recreation is Essential","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0099_eng_m_chapter_79_recreation_is_essential_128_2307.mp3#duration=568&size=4692362"},{"para_id":"128.2330","title":"Chapter 80\u2014What Shall We Play?","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0100_eng_m_chapter_80_what_shall_we_play_128_2330.mp3#duration=937&size=7642395"},{"para_id":"128.2371","title":"Chapter 81\u2014Recreation that Yields Enduring Satisfactions","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0101_eng_m_chapter_81_recreation_that_yields_enduring_satisfactions_128_2371.mp3#duration=699&size=5741293"},{"para_id":"128.2405","title":"Chapter 82\u2014How the Christian Chooses His Recreation","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0102_eng_m_chapter_82_how_the_christian_chooses_his_recreation_128_2405.mp3#duration=1151&size=9350457"},{"para_id":"128.2449","title":"Chapter 83\u2014The Lure of Pleasure","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0103_eng_m_chapter_83_the_lure_of_pleasure_128_2449.mp3#duration=619&size=5098774"},{"para_id":"128.2473","title":"Chapter 84\u2014Directing Juvenile Thinking Regarding Recreation","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0104_eng_m_chapter_84_directing_juvenile_thinking_regarding_recreation_128_2473.mp3#duration=606&size=4990789"},{"para_id":"128.2497","title":"Chapter 85\u2014The Reward Here and Hereafter","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0106_eng_m_chapter_85_the_reward_here_and_hereafter_128_2499.mp3#duration=750&size=6142778"},{"para_id":"128.2528","title":"Chapter 86\u2014Life In the Eden Home","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0107_eng_m_chapter_86_life_in_the_eden_home_128_2528.mp3#duration=986&size=8035974"},{"para_id":"128.2561","title":"Chapter 87\u2014Pen Pictures of the New Earth","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0108_eng_m_chapter_87_pen_pictures_of_the_new_earth_128_2561.mp3#duration=715&size=5865370"}]