Section 11—Children—The Junior Partners
Chapter 48—Heaven's Estimate of Children
Children Are the Purchase of Christ's Blood—Christ placed such a high estimate upon your children that He gave His life for them. Treat them as the purchase of His blood. Patiently and firmly train them for Him. Discipline with love and forbearance. As you do this, they will become a crown of rejoicing to you and will shine as lights in the world.1
AH 279.1
The youngest child that loves and fears God is greater in His sight than the most talented and learned man who neglects the great salvation. The youth who consecrate their hearts and lives to God have, in so doing, placed themselves in connection with the Fountain of all wisdom and excellence.2
AH 279.2
“Of Such Is the Kingdom of Heaven.”—The soul of the little child that believes in Christ is as precious in His sight as are the angels about His throne. They are to be brought to Christ and trained for Christ. They are to be guided in the path of obedience, not indulged in appetite or vanity.3
AH 279.3
If we would but learn the wonderful lessons which Jesus sought to teach His disciples from a little child, how many things that now seem insurmountable difficulties would wholly disappear! When the disciples came to Jesus, saying, “Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven? ... Jesus called a little child unto Him, and set him in the midst of them, and said, Verily I say unto you, Except ye be converted, and become as little children, ye shall not enter into the kingdom of heaven.4 Whosoever therefore shall humble himself as this little child, the same is greatest in the kingdom of heaven.”
AH 279.4
God's Property Entrusted to Parents—Children derive life and being from their parents, and yet it is through the creative power of God that your children have life, for God is the Life-giver. Let it be remembered that children are not to be treated as though they were our own personal property. Children are the heritage of the Lord, and the plan of redemption includes their salvation as well as ours. They have been entrusted to parents in order that they might be brought up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord, that they might be qualified to do their work in time and eternity.5
AH 280.1
Mothers, deal gently with your little ones. Christ was once a little child. For His sake honor the children. Look upon them as a sacred charge, not to be indulged, petted, and idolized, but to be taught to live pure, noble lives. They are God's property; He loves them, and calls upon you to co-operate with Him in helping them to form perfect characters.6
AH 280.2
If you would meet God in peace, feed His flock now with spiritual food; for every child has the possibility of attaining unto eternal life. Children and youth are God's peculiar treasure.7
AH 280.3
The youth need to be impressed with the truth that their endowments are not their own. Strength, time, intellect, are but lent treasures. They belong to God, and it should be the resolve of every youth to put them to the highest use. He is a branch, from which God expects fruit; a steward, whose capital must yield increase; a light, to illuminate the world's darkness. Every youth, every child, has a work to do for the honor of God and the uplifting of humanity.8
AH 280.4
The Path to Heaven Is Suited to Children's Capacity—I saw that Jesus knows our infirmities and has Himself shared our experience in all things but in sin; therefore He has prepared for us a path suited to our strength and capacity and, like Jacob, has marched softly and in evenness with the children as they were able to endure, that He might entertain us by the comfort of His company and be to us a perpetual guide. He does not despise, neglect, or leave behind the children of the flock. He has not bidden us move forward and leave them. He has not traveled so hastily as to leave us with our children behind. Oh, no; but He has evened the path to life, even for children. And parents are required in His name to lead them along the narrow way. God has appointed us a path suited to the strength and capacity of children.9
AH 281.1
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16\u2014A Happy, Successful Partnership","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0024_eng_m_chapter_16_a_happy_successful_partnership_128_449.mp3#duration=1256&size=10196634"},{"para_id":"128.492","title":"Chapter 17\u2014Mutual Obligations","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0025_eng_m_chapter_17_mutual_obligations_128_492.mp3#duration=985&size=8027293"},{"para_id":"128.523","title":"Chapter 18\u2014Marital Duties and Privileges","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0026_eng_m_chapter_18_marital_duties_and_privileges_128_523.mp3#duration=1021&size=8316735"},{"para_id":"128.563","title":"Chapter 19\u2014Where Shall the Home Be?","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0028_eng_m_chapter_19_where_shall_the_home_be_128_565.mp3#duration=554&size=4580738"},{"para_id":"128.584","title":"Chapter 20\u2014The Family and the City","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0029_eng_m_chapter_20_the_family_and_the_city_128_584.mp3#duration=638&size=5251819"},{"para_id":"128.616","title":"Chapter 21\u2014Advantages of the 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Children","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0036_eng_m_chapter_26_parents_legacy_to_children_128_762.mp3#duration=337&size=2842069"},{"para_id":"128.779","title":"Chapter 27\u2014A Sacred Circle","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0038_eng_m_chapter_27_a_sacred_circle_128_781.mp3#duration=485&size=4021897"},{"para_id":"128.803","title":"Chapter 28\u2014The Child's First School","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0039_eng_m_chapter_28_the_child_s_first_school_128_803.mp3#duration=719&size=5893340"},{"para_id":"128.835","title":"Chapter 29\u2014A Work That Cannot Be Transferred","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0040_eng_m_chapter_29_a_work_that_cannot_be_transferred_128_835.mp3#duration=355&size=2981491"},{"para_id":"128.850","title":"Chapter 30\u2014Family Companionship","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0041_eng_m_chapter_30_family_companionship_128_850.mp3#duration=562&size=4641940"},{"para_id":"128.877","title":"Chapter 31\u2014Security Through Love","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0042_eng_m_chapter_31_security_through_love_128_877.mp3#duration=655&size=5386536"},{"para_id":"128.903","title":"Chapter 32\u2014Preoccupy the Garden of the Heart","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0043_eng_m_chapter_32_preoccupy_the_garden_of_the_heart_128_903.mp3#duration=420&size=3504033"},{"para_id":"128.923","title":"Chapter 33\u2014Promises of Divine Guidance","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0044_eng_m_chapter_33_promises_of_divine_guidance_128_923.mp3#duration=648&size=5329620"},{"para_id":"128.951","title":"Chapter 34\u2014Father's Position and Responsibilities","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0046_eng_m_chapter_34_father_s_position_and_responsibilities_128_953.mp3#duration=669&size=5496271"},{"para_id":"128.978","title":"Chapter 35\u2014Sharing the Burdens","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0047_eng_m_chapter_35_sharing_the_burdens_128_978.mp3#duration=423&size=3527890"},{"para_id":"128.998","title":"Chapter 36\u2014A Companion With His Children","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0048_eng_m_chapter_36_a_companion_with_his_children_128_998.mp3#duration=460&size=3823592"},{"para_id":"128.1017","title":"Chapter 37\u2014The Kind of Husband Not To Be","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0049_eng_m_chapter_37_the_kind_of_husband_not_to_be_128_1017.mp3#duration=655&size=5388150"},{"para_id":"128.1039","title":"Chapter 38\u2014Mother's Position and Responsibilities","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0051_eng_m_chapter_38_mother_s_position_and_responsibilities_128_1041.mp3#duration=1280&size=10382756"},{"para_id":"128.1085","title":"Chapter 39\u2014Influence of the Mother","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0052_eng_m_chapter_39_influence_of_the_mother_128_1085.mp3#duration=508&size=4206284"},{"para_id":"128.1103","title":"Chapter 40\u2014Misconception of the Mother's Work","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0053_eng_m_chapter_40_misconception_of_the_mother_s_work_128_1103.mp3#duration=476&size=3956564"},{"para_id":"128.1122","title":"Chapter 41\u2014Imperfect Patterns of Motherhood","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0054_eng_m_chapter_41_imperfect_patterns_of_motherhood_128_1122.mp3#duration=385&size=3227024"},{"para_id":"128.1136","title":"Chapter 42\u2014Mother's Health and Personal Appearance","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0055_eng_m_chapter_42_mother_s_health_and_personal_appearance_128_1136.mp3#duration=490&size=4068532"},{"para_id":"128.1156","title":"Chapter 43\u2014Prenatal Influences","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0056_eng_m_chapter_43_prenatal_influences_128_1156.mp3#duration=665&size=5466318"},{"para_id":"128.1181","title":"Chapter 44\u2014Care Of Little Children","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0057_eng_m_chapter_44_care_of_little_children_128_1181.mp3#duration=487&size=4043857"},{"para_id":"128.1201","title":"Chapter 45\u2014Mother's First Duty Is To Train Children","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0058_eng_m_chapter_45_mother_s_first_duty_is_to_train_children_128_1201.mp3#duration=675&size=5548877"},{"para_id":"128.1231","title":"Chapter 46\u2014The Stepmother","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0059_eng_m_chapter_46_the_stepmother_128_1231.mp3#duration=444&size=3692821"},{"para_id":"128.1245","title":"Chapter 47\u2014Christ's Encouragement to Mothers","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0060_eng_m_chapter_47_christ_s_encouragement_to_mothers_128_1245.mp3#duration=466&size=3869090"},{"para_id":"128.1262","title":"Chapter 48\u2014Heaven's Estimate of Children","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0062_eng_m_chapter_48_heaven_s_estimate_of_children_128_1264.mp3#duration=361&size=3029009"},{"para_id":"128.1278","title":"Chapter 49\u2014Mother's Helpers","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0063_eng_m_chapter_49_mother_s_helpers_128_1278.mp3#duration=1111&size=9034655"},{"para_id":"128.1328","title":"Chapter 50\u2014The Honor Due Parents","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0064_eng_m_chapter_50_the_honor_due_parents_128_1328.mp3#duration=567&size=4680089"},{"para_id":"128.1352","title":"Chapter 51\u2014Counsel to Children","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0065_eng_m_chapter_51_counsel_to_children_128_1352.mp3#duration=832&size=6802713"},{"para_id":"128.1380","title":"Chapter 52\u2014Home Government","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0067_eng_m_chapter_52_home_government_128_1382.mp3#duration=912&size=7438169"},{"para_id":"128.1419","title":"Chapter 53\u2014A United Front","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0068_eng_m_chapter_53_a_united_front_128_1419.mp3#duration=595&size=4902168"},{"para_id":"128.1445","title":"Chapter 54\u2014Religion in the Family","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0069_eng_m_chapter_54_religion_in_the_family_128_1445.mp3#duration=1125&size=9148596"},{"para_id":"128.1496","title":"Chapter 55\u2014Moral Standards","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0070_eng_m_chapter_55_moral_standards_128_1496.mp3#duration=2209&size=17816854"},{"para_id":"128.1556","title":"Chapter 56\u2014Divorce","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0071_eng_m_chapter_56_divorce_128_1556.mp3#duration=1143&size=9287671"},{"para_id":"128.1601","title":"Chapter 57\u2014Attitude Toward an Unbelieving Companion","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0072_eng_m_chapter_57_attitude_toward_an_unbelieving_companion_128_1601.mp3#duration=664&size=5460646"},{"para_id":"128.1622","title":"Chapter 58\u2014The Minister's Family","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0073_eng_m_chapter_58_the_minister_s_family_128_1622.mp3#duration=954&size=7774740"},{"para_id":"128.1660","title":"Chapter 59\u2014The Aged Parents","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0074_eng_m_chapter_59_the_aged_parents_128_1660.mp3#duration=631&size=5195507"},{"para_id":"128.1683","title":"Chapter 60\u2014Stewards of God","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0076_eng_m_chapter_60_stewards_of_god_128_1685.mp3#duration=640&size=5261615"},{"para_id":"128.1709","title":"Chapter 61\u2014Principles of Family Finance","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0077_eng_m_chapter_61_principles_of_family_finance_128_1709.mp3#duration=1118&size=9093591"},{"para_id":"128.1762","title":"Chapter 62\u2014Economy to be Practiced","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0078_eng_m_chapter_62_economy_to_be_practiced_128_1762.mp3#duration=562&size=4643619"},{"para_id":"128.1786","title":"Chapter 63\u2014Instructing Children How to Earn and Use Money","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0079_eng_m_chapter_63_instructing_children_how_to_earn_and_use_money_128_1786.mp3#duration=561&size=4632566"},{"para_id":"128.1810","title":"Chapter 64\u2014Business Integrity","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0080_eng_m_chapter_64_business_integrity_128_1810.mp3#duration=473&size=3926796"},{"para_id":"128.1840","title":"Chapter 65\u2014Provision for the Future","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0081_eng_m_chapter_65_provision_for_the_future_128_1840.mp3#duration=505&size=4188234"},{"para_id":"128.1862","title":"Chapter 66\u2014The Portals We Must Watch","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0083_eng_m_chapter_66_the_portals_we_must_watch_128_1864.mp3#duration=678&size=5566099"},{"para_id":"128.1893","title":"Chapter 67\u2014Enticing Sights and Sounds","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0084_eng_m_chapter_67_enticing_sights_and_sounds_128_1893.mp3#duration=556&size=4592540"},{"para_id":"128.1910","title":"Chapter 68\u2014Reading and its Influence","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0085_eng_m_chapter_68_reading_and_its_influence_128_1910.mp3#duration=1142&size=9284325"},{"para_id":"128.1955","title":"Chapter 69\u2014Courtesy and Kindness","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0087_eng_m_chapter_69_courtesy_and_kindness_128_1957.mp3#duration=1245&size=10107554"},{"para_id":"128.2006","title":"Chapter 70\u2014Cheerfulness","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0088_eng_m_chapter_70_cheerfulness_128_2006.mp3#duration=495&size=4102728"},{"para_id":"128.2024","title":"Chapter 71\u2014Speech","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0089_eng_m_chapter_71_speech_128_2024.mp3#duration=1302&size=10565921"},{"para_id":"128.2083","title":"Chapter 72\u2014Hospitality","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0090_eng_m_chapter_72_hospitality_128_2083.mp3#duration=1027&size=8359635"},{"para_id":"128.2123","title":"Chapter 73\u2014Our Social Needs","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0092_eng_m_chapter_73_our_social_needs_128_2125.mp3#duration=459&size=3820293"},{"para_id":"128.2144","title":"Chapter 74\u2014Safe And Unsafe Associations","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0093_eng_m_chapter_74_safe_and_unsafe_associations_128_2144.mp3#duration=808&size=6610790"},{"para_id":"128.2177","title":"Chapter 75\u2014Parental Guidance In Social Affairs","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0094_eng_m_chapter_75_parental_guidance_in_social_affairs_128_2177.mp3#duration=698&size=5726246"},{"para_id":"128.2207","title":"Chapter 76\u2014Holidays And Anniversaries","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0095_eng_m_chapter_76_holidays_and_anniversaries_128_2207.mp3#duration=520&size=4301932"},{"para_id":"128.2236","title":"Chapter 77\u2014Christmas","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0096_eng_m_chapter_77_christmas_128_2236.mp3#duration=762&size=6245157"},{"para_id":"128.2271","title":"Chapter 78\u2014The Family a Missionary Center","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0097_eng_m_chapter_78_the_family_a_missionary_center_128_2271.mp3#duration=836&size=6836938"},{"para_id":"128.2305","title":"Chapter 79\u2014Recreation is Essential","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0099_eng_m_chapter_79_recreation_is_essential_128_2307.mp3#duration=568&size=4692362"},{"para_id":"128.2330","title":"Chapter 80\u2014What Shall We Play?","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0100_eng_m_chapter_80_what_shall_we_play_128_2330.mp3#duration=937&size=7642395"},{"para_id":"128.2371","title":"Chapter 81\u2014Recreation that Yields Enduring Satisfactions","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0101_eng_m_chapter_81_recreation_that_yields_enduring_satisfactions_128_2371.mp3#duration=699&size=5741293"},{"para_id":"128.2405","title":"Chapter 82\u2014How the Christian Chooses His Recreation","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0102_eng_m_chapter_82_how_the_christian_chooses_his_recreation_128_2405.mp3#duration=1151&size=9350457"},{"para_id":"128.2449","title":"Chapter 83\u2014The Lure of Pleasure","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0103_eng_m_chapter_83_the_lure_of_pleasure_128_2449.mp3#duration=619&size=5098774"},{"para_id":"128.2473","title":"Chapter 84\u2014Directing Juvenile Thinking Regarding Recreation","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0104_eng_m_chapter_84_directing_juvenile_thinking_regarding_recreation_128_2473.mp3#duration=606&size=4990789"},{"para_id":"128.2497","title":"Chapter 85\u2014The Reward Here and Hereafter","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0106_eng_m_chapter_85_the_reward_here_and_hereafter_128_2499.mp3#duration=750&size=6142778"},{"para_id":"128.2528","title":"Chapter 86\u2014Life In the Eden Home","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0107_eng_m_chapter_86_life_in_the_eden_home_128_2528.mp3#duration=986&size=8035974"},{"para_id":"128.2561","title":"Chapter 87\u2014Pen Pictures of the New Earth","mp3":"\/mp3\/128\/0108_eng_m_chapter_87_pen_pictures_of_the_new_earth_128_2561.mp3#duration=715&size=5865370"}]