Counsels on Lifestyle

Counsel #4 — Unexpected First Exposure

Picture: Counsel #4 — Unexpected First Exposure CLi 91.1

Being introduced to porn by a family member can be an extremely emotional event in someone’s life, especially if done during the formative years. Such exposure, whether intentional or by accident, can cause a child to feel so confused that their curiosity leads them to seek more graphic images or videos as they age and mature. CLi 91.2

Although a lot of young adults are exposed to porn through their peers or on the internet, the involvement of a trusted family member complicates the situation even more due to a breach of trust, power dynamics, or even coercion. Experiences like this can affect a person’s point of view regarding healthy boundaries later in life, and the development of self-esteem and control issues may even arise despite being surrounded by a healthy support system. Many times, healing will require professional counseling and spiritual-based practices that can heal the heart and rewire the brain. Turning to God for restoration is the first step.^[82] CLi 91.3

“But whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in Me to sin, it would be better for him if a millstone were hung around his neck, and he were drowned in the depth of the sea.” Matthew 18:6 ERV CLi 91.4

"... the youth have been gradually led from safe into forbidden paths, seduced, made strengthless in their way downward, ever downward, into habits and practices causing shame and suffering to themselves and to others…."Ellen White in Letters and Manuscripts, vol. 8, Manuscript 92, 1893, par. 3 CLi 91.5

Reflect: What specific steps can be taken to protect children and adolescents from harmful exposure to pornography? CLi 91.6